The mourning after: Clinton supporters at Archer come together following election results
When Donald Trump won the presidency on Nov. 8, few saw it coming. For many Archer girls, who have been described as “extremely liberal” and who attend a school focused on female empowerment, the news was met with shock and tears.
In a segment for the “Today Show,” senior Audrey Koh called the day — which many had hoped would be a celebration of the first female president — a communal progression through the “five stages of grief.”
“Donald Trump is elected, and the majority of the campus is devastated. He is racist and misogynistic, and that perspective being in office is legitimizing it for the whole country,” Sarah Walston ’17 said. “It’s going to become even more present than it is today. I am disgusted, I am emotional and I can’t believe that this happened.”
Noa Diamond ’18 said, “It didn’t really hit me that he won until I came to school today and heard everyone talk about how they’re feeling, and how scared everyone is for the future. Then it really sunk in that, wow, I just can’t believe our country voted for this man to be president, and I just can’t believe how split and divided the country actually was in its views.”
Middle school students were not exempt from this effect.
“When I got off the bus to school, all my friends were down the hall sobbing their eyes out, and then when I went to the meeting in the Rose Room, everyone was crying. So I mean, today is a sad day. It is the day to mourn,” Lexi Tooley ’22 said.
“The election happened, and there was nothing I could do about it, which made me really sad,” Presley Sacavitch ’22 said. “Today I’m just feeling disappointment, but also support, because a lot of my friends are feeling the same way — so we are all there for each other.”
In addition to the “Today Show,” the Hollywood Reporter quoted an email written by Head of School Elizabeth English in their article “Los Angeles Schools Offering Counseling, Support in Wake of Donald Trump’s Election Win.”
“Little could have prepared us, even as educators, for the waves of emotion that swept the school first thing this morning. We gave the girls time and space to process their feelings and fears, regardless of their position,” she wrote.
Upper School Director Samantha Coyne Donnel was optimistic about Archer students’ futures.
“I think this just serves to support why this school’s here, and why it’s so important for us to be here recognizing the seniors. I know some of you have said you’re scared to go out there, but I’m hopeful. And so this is a day to recognize you, and your contributions to this community, but we’re also thinking about you as members of the future,” she said.
Many expressed their gratitude for Archer’s environment on this day.
“I am glad to be at school because my attendance at Archer defies everything Donald Trump stands for. And I wouldn’t want to be home crying — I would want to be here,” senior Carly Feldman said.
“I think the administration is doing a really nice job of letting students who are feeling disappointed express their opinions,” Isabel Adler ’17 said. “They’re not saying anything about my Hillary shirt, which I really appreciate because I’m having a hard time with this election, and it’s letting me have my last hurrah. I’m really glad the administration is supporting students who feel sad.”
Throughout the day, students were provided with opportunities to process, share and cry with one another in a designated council space and in individual classes.
“We’re so lucky to have this inclusive space for everyone who’s just feeling devastated,” Koh said.
The night of the election, Coyne sent out an email to the Archer community as the results were coming in.
“Regardless of your political views, my hope is that our community will come together tomorrow and respond with civility, poise, and respect,” she wrote. “I trust you, the student body, to rise above the divisive, inflammatory rhetoric of this election and to act with compassion and respect towards one another in conversation, over social media, and in any other forum.”
However, Alessandra Judaken ’21, who supports Trump, did not have a good experience.
“I was not expecting such a political experience. I have never been so exposed to politics. To be honest, it was one of the worst days of my life. I called my mom and talked to Dr. Nesbitt. I felt like I was being accused for things that [Trump] believed. [Many Archer girls] completely shut me out and didn’t talk to me at all.”
“I know it was uniquely challenging on Wednesday for conservative students at a girls school in a city whose voters supported Hillary Clinton 3 to 1,” Dean of Students Travis Nesbitt wrote in an email. “In this context it was important to remind students of our values of respect and empathy and our mission to engage the issues critically and intellectually.”
Though the results left many students disappointed, some commented on their hopes for a brighter future.
“I will never forget walking into Archer and seeing all of those girls crying in the courtyard. It was unbelievable, and not only was it moving, but it proved to me how much people really cared about this election and how invested young women were in it,” Maya Winkler ’18 said.
“I’m hopeful, and I’m crossing my fingers that our country is going to be in good hands and that we have enough checks and balances to allow for positive futures.”
Eloise Rollins-Fife joined the Oracle staff in 2015 and was promoted to co-Voices editor in 2016. She became the Managing/News & Features Editor for...
MaryLynn Schiavi • Nov 14, 2016 at 5:30 pm
Eloise,
You captured with great sensitivity and without sentimentality a subject that proves challenging even for seasoned journalists. You expressed the sentiments that so many of us have felt this past week. The sense of fear and disillusionment was sometimes strangely overwhelming. I kept asking myself — why do I feel so sad? Why do I feel as though someone died?
It is really for all the reasons you mentioned and I think especially because Trump’s hate-mongering and divisive language appeared to be legitimized once he was elected. Essentially, an attitude of hate and prejudice received the seal of approval from vast numbers of people.
I am not sure how one can simply dismiss one’s language and attitude as just — campaign rhetoric. There are those of us who have been deeply wounded by this experience and the realization that hate and prejudice is alive and well in America.
And so many of us who feel it are women, and apparently, age is not a factor. I’m 61 and feel exactly like you and your classmates.
Keep writing! We need your voice.
Kind wishes,
MaryLynn
Hillary Rollins • Nov 14, 2016 at 2:03 pm
Once again, so proud of my daughter – love this article and her journalistic approach to a subject I know she’s finding difficult to deal with. I think she’s a great writer and the Archer community is a great place for her to blossom as such – thank you, Eloise, and thank you, Oracle!
Isabel • Nov 11, 2016 at 11:52 pm
Thanks for this article, Eloise. Insightful, as usual!
Beth Gold • Nov 11, 2016 at 4:12 pm
Great job reporting on the complex web of emotions, words and perspectives of community members around the election. You really captured the tone and mood of the community in the elections’ immediate aftermath. I am happy you ended on Maya’s upbeat note that it is a positive for all of us that young women are so invested in the country and its politics.